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BDSM Checklist
by Mistress Catharine / katy
This checklist is a work in progress. More will be added over time. It is planned to add a description of some of the activities in the glossary later.
The checklist should be filled out by the submissive for the Dominant's use.
If the submissive doesn't understand what the activity is about the submissive should put a "?" and this can be a flag for the Dominant for further explanation
Ever done? Should be answered by "yes", "no", or "ol" for online only!
Like to? Should be answered as:
Never: a hard limit, something the sub has an aversion to.
No: no desire to do this, but does not have a particular aversion to it. Something the sub would consider doing however to please a dominant.
Maybe: thinks that he or she would probably like the activity, could be something that is an enjoyable fantasy, but that the sub is not sure will translate into an enjoyable real life activity. Also could be something the sub wants but is embarrassed about wanting.
Yes: is quite sure that this activity is something that he or she would like to do, perhaps a reoccurring fantasy and often something that the sub has done in the past and enjoyed.
Fetish: the sub finds this activity a wild turn on and has a particular fetish or preoccupation with it.
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BDSMCIRCLE CHECK LIST ACTIVITY |
Ever done?
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Like To?
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yes
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no
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ol
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never
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no
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maybe
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yes
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fetish |
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| Abrasion | |||||||||
| Age play (not pedophilia) | |||||||||
| Anal plugs | |||||||||
| Anal sex | |||||||||
| Animal roles | |||||||||
| Arm and leg sleeves | |||||||||
| Asphyxiation | |||||||||
| Ball gag | |||||||||
| Ball stretching | |||||||||
| Beating hard | |||||||||
| Beating soft | |||||||||
| Being blindfolded | |||||||||
| Being gagged | |||||||||
| Being serviced (sex) | |||||||||
| Bestiality | |||||||||
| Biting | |||||||||
| Bondage- heavy | |||||||||
| Bondage - light | |||||||||
| Boot worship | |||||||||
| Branding | |||||||||
| Breast bondage | |||||||||
| Breast fucking | |||||||||
| Breast whipping | |||||||||
| Brown showers | |||||||||
| Cages | |||||||||
| Caning - english | |||||||||
| Caning - sensation | |||||||||
| Catheterization | |||||||||
| Chains | |||||||||
| Chastity device | |||||||||
| Chauffeuring | |||||||||
| Choking | |||||||||
| Chores (domestic service) | |||||||||
| Chosen clothing for | |||||||||
| Chosen food for | |||||||||
| Clothespins | |||||||||
| Cock worship | |||||||||
| Collars | |||||||||
| Corsets | |||||||||
| Cuffs | |||||||||
| Cutting | |||||||||
| Dilation | |||||||||
| Double penetration | |||||||||
| Ear plugs | |||||||||
| Electricity | |||||||||
| Enemas | |||||||||
| Examinations | |||||||||
| Exhibitionism | |||||||||
| Eye contact restrictions | |||||||||
| Face slapping | |||||||||
| Fantasy gang rape | |||||||||
| Fantasy rape | |||||||||
| Fisting | |||||||||
| Flogging | |||||||||
| Following orders | |||||||||
| Foot worship | |||||||||
| Forced dressing | |||||||||
| Forced feminization | |||||||||
| Forced homosexuality | |||||||||
| Forced masturbation | |||||||||
| Forced nudity | |||||||||
| Forced servitude | |||||||||
| Genital sex | |||||||||
| Given away | |||||||||
| Golden showers | |||||||||
| Group play | |||||||||
| Hair pulling | |||||||||
| Hairbrushes | |||||||||
| Harnessing | |||||||||
| High heel worship | |||||||||
| Homage with tongue | |||||||||
| Hoods | |||||||||
| Hot wax - dripping | |||||||||
| Hot waxing - hair removal | |||||||||
| Housework | |||||||||
| Human puppy dog | |||||||||
| Humiliation in private | |||||||||
| Humiliation in public | |||||||||
| Ice cubes | |||||||||
| Infantilism | |||||||||
| Initiation rites | |||||||||
| Injections | |||||||||
| Interrogations | |||||||||
| Intricate rope bondage | |||||||||
| Kidnapping | |||||||||
| Kneeling | |||||||||
| Leather restraints | |||||||||
| Lecturing | |||||||||
| Mantra and meditation | |||||||||
| Massage - getting | |||||||||
| Massage - giving | |||||||||
| Medical scenes | |||||||||
| Model for erotic pictures | |||||||||
| Mouth bits | |||||||||
| Name change | |||||||||
| Nipple clamps | |||||||||
| Nipple weights | |||||||||
| Oral - getting | |||||||||
| Oral - giving to opposite sex | |||||||||
| Oral - giving to same sex | |||||||||
| Orgasm control | |||||||||
| Orgasm denial | |||||||||
| Outdoor scenes | |||||||||
| Over-the-knee spanking | |||||||||
| Paddling | |||||||||
| Personality modification | |||||||||
| Phone sex | |||||||||
| Piercing (perm) | |||||||||
| Piercing (temp) | |||||||||
| Prison scenes | |||||||||
| Prostitution, real or fantasy | |||||||||
| Pussy whipping | |||||||||
| Pussy worship | |||||||||
| Riding crops | |||||||||
| Rimming | |||||||||
| Rituals | |||||||||
| Religious scenes | |||||||||
| Rope bondage | |||||||||
| Rubber/latex clothing | |||||||||
| Saran wrapping | |||||||||
| Scarification | |||||||||
| Scratching - getting | |||||||||
| Scratching - giving | |||||||||
| Sensory deprivation | |||||||||
| Serving as a maid | |||||||||
| Serving as a pony | |||||||||
| Serving as furniture/art | |||||||||
| Serving as toilet | |||||||||
| Serving orally | |||||||||
| Serving other Doms (supervised only) | |||||||||
| Sexual deprivation | |||||||||
| Shaving | |||||||||
| Sleep deprivation | |||||||||
| Slutty clothing | |||||||||
| Spandex clothing | |||||||||
| Spanking | |||||||||
| Speculums | |||||||||
| Speech Restrictions, what and when.. | |||||||||
| Spreader bars | |||||||||
| Stable (serving with other submissives) | |||||||||
| Standing in corner | |||||||||
| Stocks | |||||||||
| Straight jackets | |||||||||
| Strap-on-dildos | |||||||||
| Strapping | |||||||||
| Suspension | |||||||||
| Swapping | |||||||||
| Swinging | |||||||||
| Tape gags | |||||||||
| Tattooing | |||||||||
| Teasing | |||||||||
| Thumb cuffs | |||||||||
| Tickling | |||||||||
| Triple penetration | |||||||||
| Uniforms | |||||||||
| Verbal humiliation | |||||||||
| Videotaped Scenes | |||||||||
| Voyeurism | |||||||||
| Whipping | |||||||||
| Wooden paddles | |||||||||
| Wrestling | |||||||||
| Any allergies that the Dom(me) should be aware? (if yes, describe:) | |||||||||
| Any medical conditions? (if yes, give details:) | |||||||||
| Any specific subject not described in this list that the Dom(me) should be concern with? (if yes describe:) | |||||||||
ŠTHE BDSM CIRCLE 2002
